"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to handle a situation, where your mate coaxes at the girl whom you opened???

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Yo guys

Today I was on a congress with a mate of mine. Most of the time, he's quite a nice guy, he's got only one problem: If I open a chick, after one or two minutes he completely takes the focus on himself and fusses about his **** life! He blabbers at her and he doesn't realize wtf he's doing! That suxx hardly: He always get the girls annoyed and she looks like we would be complete fools! So what can I do in this case?? Any tipps?


Pretty annoyed rasp.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yeah, usually I don't go out with him. But he does the same studies like me; so there will be unfortunately some opportunities like yesterday. So what could I do in this cases? What would you do?
 
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I would just be honest with him and tell him the problem; and that if he sees a girl your talkin to, not to be annoyin and sh*t like you described
 
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What is so hard about telling him not to moan to girls you're talking to? Just tell him that when he sees you talking to a girl, to stay the f*ck out. Tell him that it annoys you that when you are having a great time with a new girl, he has to ruin that fun by moaning like a girl.

As a last resort, *****slap him, tell him to get his sh*t together and fix his life like a man, instead of doing nothing.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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eaglez1177 said:
I would just be honest with him and tell him the problem; and that if he sees a girl your talkin to, not to be annoyin and sh*t like you described
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SandHawk said:
What is so hard about telling him not to moan to girls you're talking to? Just tell him that when he sees you talking to a girl, to stay the f*ck out. Tell him that it annoys you that when you are having a great time with a new girl, he has to ruin that fun by moaning like a girl.

As a last resort, *****slap him, tell him to get his sh*t together and fix his life like a man, instead of doing nothing.
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Yeah, thx for the input! Naturally you're right... Next time he gets a kick in his ****ing ass...
 
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