"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to handle a situation, where your mate coaxes at the girl whom you opened???

Rasputin

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Yo guys

Today I was on a congress with a mate of mine. Most of the time, he's quite a nice guy, he's got only one problem: If I open a chick, after one or two minutes he completely takes the focus on himself and fusses about his **** life! He blabbers at her and he doesn't realize wtf he's doing! That suxx hardly: He always get the girls annoyed and she looks like we would be complete fools! So what can I do in this case?? Any tipps?


Pretty annoyed rasp.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rasputin

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Yeah, usually I don't go out with him. But he does the same studies like me; so there will be unfortunately some opportunities like yesterday. So what could I do in this cases? What would you do?
 

eaglez1177

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I would just be honest with him and tell him the problem; and that if he sees a girl your talkin to, not to be annoyin and sh*t like you described
 

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What is so hard about telling him not to moan to girls you're talking to? Just tell him that when he sees you talking to a girl, to stay the f*ck out. Tell him that it annoys you that when you are having a great time with a new girl, he has to ruin that fun by moaning like a girl.

As a last resort, *****slap him, tell him to get his sh*t together and fix his life like a man, instead of doing nothing.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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eaglez1177 said:
I would just be honest with him and tell him the problem; and that if he sees a girl your talkin to, not to be annoyin and sh*t like you described
SandHawk said:
What is so hard about telling him not to moan to girls you're talking to? Just tell him that when he sees you talking to a girl, to stay the f*ck out. Tell him that it annoys you that when you are having a great time with a new girl, he has to ruin that fun by moaning like a girl.

As a last resort, *****slap him, tell him to get his sh*t together and fix his life like a man, instead of doing nothing.
Yeah, thx for the input! Naturally you're right... Next time he gets a kick in his ****ing ass...
 
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