"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to handle a situation, where your mate coaxes at the girl whom you opened???

Rasputin

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Yo guys

Today I was on a congress with a mate of mine. Most of the time, he's quite a nice guy, he's got only one problem: If I open a chick, after one or two minutes he completely takes the focus on himself and fusses about his **** life! He blabbers at her and he doesn't realize wtf he's doing! That suxx hardly: He always get the girls annoyed and she looks like we would be complete fools! So what can I do in this case?? Any tipps?


Pretty annoyed rasp.
 

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Rasputin

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Yeah, usually I don't go out with him. But he does the same studies like me; so there will be unfortunately some opportunities like yesterday. So what could I do in this cases? What would you do?
 

eaglez1177

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I would just be honest with him and tell him the problem; and that if he sees a girl your talkin to, not to be annoyin and sh*t like you described
 

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What is so hard about telling him not to moan to girls you're talking to? Just tell him that when he sees you talking to a girl, to stay the f*ck out. Tell him that it annoys you that when you are having a great time with a new girl, he has to ruin that fun by moaning like a girl.

As a last resort, *****slap him, tell him to get his sh*t together and fix his life like a man, instead of doing nothing.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Rasputin

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eaglez1177 said:
I would just be honest with him and tell him the problem; and that if he sees a girl your talkin to, not to be annoyin and sh*t like you described
SandHawk said:
What is so hard about telling him not to moan to girls you're talking to? Just tell him that when he sees you talking to a girl, to stay the f*ck out. Tell him that it annoys you that when you are having a great time with a new girl, he has to ruin that fun by moaning like a girl.

As a last resort, *****slap him, tell him to get his sh*t together and fix his life like a man, instead of doing nothing.
Yeah, thx for the input! Naturally you're right... Next time he gets a kick in his ****ing ass...
 
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