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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

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How to handle a dominant girl in bed

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Hi guys,

One of my 3 plates tries to be quite dominant in bed, which for me is not something that I like too much. I like to be the director of my movies so to speak when it comes to sex, however this girl tries many times to assume control, which often results in taking away a bit of the enjoyment for me. Any tips on how to deal with this kind of girls? Or is it just a case of maybe not being compatible ?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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marmel75

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Hi guys,

One of my 3 plates tries to be quite dominant in bed, which for me is not something that I like too much. I like to be the director of my movies so to speak when it comes to sex, however this girl tries many times to assume control, which often results in taking away a bit of the enjoyment for me. Any tips on how to deal with this kind of girls? Or is it just a case of maybe not being compatible ?
You teach her a lesson and punish her. Make it a grudge match.
Spank her ass til you leave handprints, pull her hair, stick your c0ck in her ass all the way deep and hold it there until she has to beg for mercy and reach back and digs her nails into you so hard you cant take it, shove your c0ck down her throat and throat fvck her and slap her face while you are doing it...not hard just hard enough to make it sting slightly..start fingering her harder and harder until you mske her squirt and then dont stop, keep doing it while she squirts continuously...talk sh!t to her while soing it and fvck the living daylights out of her until she submits to your dominance...those chicks like it rough most of the time...sometimes really rough...I personally love it when a woman tries that...turns out to be some of the hottest sex
 

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Only time I encountered a dominant was when I was very young with an older woman and didn’t know crap about sex and who leads.
The most she should be doing is giving you ocassional hints on how to please her, not running the show…
She should be somewhat mentally submissive and enjoying the ride, so examine your own doninance level.
 
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Hi guys,

One of my 3 plates tries to be quite dominant in bed, which for me is not something that I like too much. I like to be the director of my movies so to speak when it comes to sex, however this girl tries many times to assume control, which often results in taking away a bit of the enjoyment for me. Any tips on how to deal with this kind of girls? Or is it just a case of maybe not being compatible ?
like what shes doing?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hi guys,

One of my 3 plates tries to be quite dominant in bed, which for me is not something that I like too much. I like to be the director of my movies so to speak when it comes to sex, however this girl tries many times to assume control, which often results in taking away a bit of the enjoyment for me. Any tips on how to deal with this kind of girls? Or is it just a case of maybe not being compatible ?
I've been with a few women like this, and it's like you said, major boner-killer. I don't find it attractive at all.

I guess you could try to be more dominant in bed, but that would become an ongoing struggle. Which could be fun! Who am I to judge?

The times I fvcked chicks like this, I stopped talking to them shortly after.
 

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I've been with a few women like this, and it's like you said, major boner-killer. I don't find it attractive at all.

I guess you could try to be more dominant in bed, but that would become an ongoing struggle. Which could be fun! Who am I to judge?

The times I fvcked chicks like this, I stopped talking to them shortly after.
Not a fan. It seems masculine to me.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I've been with a few women like this, and it's like you said, major boner-killer. I don't find it attractive at all.

I guess you could try to be more dominant in bed, but that would become an ongoing struggle. Which could be fun! Who am I to judge?

The times I fvcked chicks like this, I stopped talking to them shortly after.
I've had one it had to be her way. If you tried to control it she'd stop or say it was rape. It's a boner killer.
 

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could it be possible she likes your c0ck, but you are not that good in the sack... ?
she is trying and you have not the balls or experience on how to handle her
this is when you tell her "bad kitty! get the fvck on your knees and ass in the air, im grabbing my leather belt"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Just go with the flow. But if the sex you guys are having isn't working for you, just dump her and start fvcking chicks that give you what you want.
 

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As you said, it is quite possible this chick and you don't fit together sexually. People don't just fit sexually like that, it's not as easy as it seems or sounds. I have had girls seemingly very bulky and big and big-boned and whatever you wanna call not be able to take my **** (granted its of considerable size) while I have had my skinny ex-girl who took it all in balls deep and just loved it.

I have also had a couple of girls/women who just didn't know what to do. Women usually expect us to be good at sex. Most women don't know how to properly bang. If you don't teach them, they will never know. They don;t know how to give a proper BJ, they don't even know how to ride properly. Sh1t, I have even had some girls who don't know to keep their legs open properly while missionary LOL

Point being, don't stress it out too much. If you have 3 plates, you must be doing something good. Keep on, explore. If you don't like this chick in particular and you see it's sth she enjoys a lot, don't even try to talk it with her since she;s not bound to become your girlfriend anytime soon, if I understand that correctly. Just go a bit colder on her, explore other girls.
 

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I assume you meant the opposite of masculine. Come at me, bro. It takes a lot to ruffle my feathers.
women being into domination of a man seems masculine. does nothing for me. said woman probably likes to wear a strap on and smash your corn hole.
 

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women being into domination of a man seems masculine. does nothing for me. said woman probably likes to wear a strap on and smash your corn hole.
Either that or gets off on withholding sex, because it makes her feel less dominant if she gives up the pvssy.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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