"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to Give a Virgin her first Orgasm?

Four_Aces

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I recently met a nice 8.5 virgin at a college bar. We recently had sex for the first time.

My concern is making her orgasm, because she is new to sex, I want to give her the best experience possible. Any tips on getting her comfortable enough to orgasm / techniques?

Thanks guys.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Desdinova

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Getting a woman to orgasm takes experience. It will also vary from woman to woman.

I find the best way to get a woman to have an orgasm is to either eat them out or use your fingers. Even better, stimulate the c1it with your tongue and finger her at the same time.

Moved to AE...
 

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Oral is the way to go buddy. Trust me on this. Don't believe me? Try it, she'll go NUTS.
 

speakeasy

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I agree with the above guy. Lick her out and she'll have no problems having an orgasm.
 

piranha45

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fingers and tongue
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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thedeparted

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Four_Aces said:
I recently met a nice 8.5 virgin at a college bar.
Correction. You recently met an 8.5 who claims she is a virgin. :D
 

azanon

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thedeparted said:
Correction. You recently met an 8.5 who claims she is a virgin. :D
Bingo! And for that win, you can choose between door #1, 2, or 3.

The humorous part for me was, "I met a virgin at a college bar". Hey, not saying a virgin's never been to a bar - I'm sure plenty of male virgins have - but I'd expect to meet more actual virgins at a local church.
 

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I have eaten her out, and used fingers, but not seen the "body tensing/shaking" that is characteristic of an orgasm. Perhaps because she is still young, and shy. Comfort and time may be vital here.

The reason she was at the College bar is because she had just turned EIGHTEEN at the time I met her. It's one of the few places in town that lets underage people in (and puts big X's on the back of their hands).

I also had extreme doubts if she was a virgin. I've evaluated all the evidence and chose to believe her. She was from a very small town before moving here 2 months ago, had a very protective family, and did not have many guys approaching her due to her height (she is 5'11").

Thanks for the replies everyone! - especially Azanon and Truman181. I will give her your number :p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gangster Of Love

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Four_Aces said:
Thanks for the replies everyone! - especially Azanon and Truman181. I will give her your number :p

No. Better if you give Azanon and Truman181 HER number. :yes:
 

FairShake

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Experiment. Find out what she likes. Find out her spots. Get the rhythm of escalation down and you'll be fine. Just like conversation, when it comes to sex try and spend as much time listening to them and finding out about them as getting yourself off and everyone will be happier.
 

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My girl was a virgin as well. Her first time was rough. Took me a while to get in, and it was messy. If she is new to sex, you just have to do it a few times to get her used to it and relaxed to enjoy it. #1 is to relax and #2 is to find the right technique/angle.
 
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