"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to Give a Virgin her first Orgasm?

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I recently met a nice 8.5 virgin at a college bar. We recently had sex for the first time.

My concern is making her orgasm, because she is new to sex, I want to give her the best experience possible. Any tips on getting her comfortable enough to orgasm / techniques?

Thanks guys.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Desdinova

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Getting a woman to orgasm takes experience. It will also vary from woman to woman.

I find the best way to get a woman to have an orgasm is to either eat them out or use your fingers. Even better, stimulate the c1it with your tongue and finger her at the same time.

Moved to AE...
 

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Oral is the way to go buddy. Trust me on this. Don't believe me? Try it, she'll go NUTS.
 

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I agree with the above guy. Lick her out and she'll have no problems having an orgasm.
 

piranha45

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fingers and tongue
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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thedeparted

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Four_Aces said:
I recently met a nice 8.5 virgin at a college bar.
Correction. You recently met an 8.5 who claims she is a virgin. :D
 

azanon

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thedeparted said:
Correction. You recently met an 8.5 who claims she is a virgin. :D
Bingo! And for that win, you can choose between door #1, 2, or 3.

The humorous part for me was, "I met a virgin at a college bar". Hey, not saying a virgin's never been to a bar - I'm sure plenty of male virgins have - but I'd expect to meet more actual virgins at a local church.
 

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I have eaten her out, and used fingers, but not seen the "body tensing/shaking" that is characteristic of an orgasm. Perhaps because she is still young, and shy. Comfort and time may be vital here.

The reason she was at the College bar is because she had just turned EIGHTEEN at the time I met her. It's one of the few places in town that lets underage people in (and puts big X's on the back of their hands).

I also had extreme doubts if she was a virgin. I've evaluated all the evidence and chose to believe her. She was from a very small town before moving here 2 months ago, had a very protective family, and did not have many guys approaching her due to her height (she is 5'11").

Thanks for the replies everyone! - especially Azanon and Truman181. I will give her your number :p
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Gangster Of Love

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Four_Aces said:
Thanks for the replies everyone! - especially Azanon and Truman181. I will give her your number :p

No. Better if you give Azanon and Truman181 HER number. :yes:
 

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Experiment. Find out what she likes. Find out her spots. Get the rhythm of escalation down and you'll be fine. Just like conversation, when it comes to sex try and spend as much time listening to them and finding out about them as getting yourself off and everyone will be happier.
 

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My girl was a virgin as well. Her first time was rough. Took me a while to get in, and it was messy. If she is new to sex, you just have to do it a few times to get her used to it and relaxed to enjoy it. #1 is to relax and #2 is to find the right technique/angle.
 
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