"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to Give a Virgin her first Orgasm?

Four_Aces

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I recently met a nice 8.5 virgin at a college bar. We recently had sex for the first time.

My concern is making her orgasm, because she is new to sex, I want to give her the best experience possible. Any tips on getting her comfortable enough to orgasm / techniques?

Thanks guys.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Desdinova

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Getting a woman to orgasm takes experience. It will also vary from woman to woman.

I find the best way to get a woman to have an orgasm is to either eat them out or use your fingers. Even better, stimulate the c1it with your tongue and finger her at the same time.

Moved to AE...
 

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Oral is the way to go buddy. Trust me on this. Don't believe me? Try it, she'll go NUTS.
 

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I agree with the above guy. Lick her out and she'll have no problems having an orgasm.
 

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fingers and tongue
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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thedeparted

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Four_Aces said:
I recently met a nice 8.5 virgin at a college bar.
Correction. You recently met an 8.5 who claims she is a virgin. :D
 

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thedeparted said:
Correction. You recently met an 8.5 who claims she is a virgin. :D
Bingo! And for that win, you can choose between door #1, 2, or 3.

The humorous part for me was, "I met a virgin at a college bar". Hey, not saying a virgin's never been to a bar - I'm sure plenty of male virgins have - but I'd expect to meet more actual virgins at a local church.
 

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I have eaten her out, and used fingers, but not seen the "body tensing/shaking" that is characteristic of an orgasm. Perhaps because she is still young, and shy. Comfort and time may be vital here.

The reason she was at the College bar is because she had just turned EIGHTEEN at the time I met her. It's one of the few places in town that lets underage people in (and puts big X's on the back of their hands).

I also had extreme doubts if she was a virgin. I've evaluated all the evidence and chose to believe her. She was from a very small town before moving here 2 months ago, had a very protective family, and did not have many guys approaching her due to her height (she is 5'11").

Thanks for the replies everyone! - especially Azanon and Truman181. I will give her your number :p
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Four_Aces said:
Thanks for the replies everyone! - especially Azanon and Truman181. I will give her your number :p

No. Better if you give Azanon and Truman181 HER number. :yes:
 

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Experiment. Find out what she likes. Find out her spots. Get the rhythm of escalation down and you'll be fine. Just like conversation, when it comes to sex try and spend as much time listening to them and finding out about them as getting yourself off and everyone will be happier.
 

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My girl was a virgin as well. Her first time was rough. Took me a while to get in, and it was messy. If she is new to sex, you just have to do it a few times to get her used to it and relaxed to enjoy it. #1 is to relax and #2 is to find the right technique/angle.
 
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