how to get this girl!

[Dave111]

I have my eye on a girl who works in the shop accross from mine in the shopping mall. She is hot, but Ive never actually spoken to her, but she always looks over towards my shop and I've decided now that I have to ask this girl out but its finding the right time or excuse to talk to her.

I feel that I will have to build up some kind of rapport with her first, rather than just jump straight in and ask her out, but I've no clear idea of how to make sure that I'm successful, any ideas to kick me off?

 

[nw1512]

You dont need an excuse to talk to her,

If you like her, and want to get to know her, say to her.

"Hey i'm Dave111, Ive noticed you from across the street and wanted to know are you single"

That will kickstart the rapport your looking for and will stop you from wasting your mental energy creating situations to meet her in.

 

[DJ_Dork]

you're in a good situation.. the shopping mall. ask her when's her next break - take advantage of that time slot to have lunch/coffee and walk around the mall (even though she knows the place.) consider it a mini-date, don't worry about spending just 30 min. GET HER NUMBER at the end of it.

 

[Dee-Zy]

What he and dementia said ^^^.


Basicly, you needn't have an excuse to talk to her. If you are attracted to her, THAT is enough of an excuse.

I wouldn't ask her if she's single however. Just assume and you'll be fine.

Assume that she is interested (It's easier to carry out any type of move if you assume that she is already interested rather than she is disgusted by you). If she isn't, she'll let you know. So just get that number. That mini-date thing is great.

GL

 

[crackhead]

Originally posted by dementia
funny story.

A friend of mine was in the same situation. The HB was a hairdresser and every chick in the place was HB8 or above. He claimed they also look at eachother from his shop to theirs. On valentines day he goes over with a rose, gives it to her, and says "Happy valentines day... Do u wanna go do somethin?"... She said "I have a boyfriend".... Then he walked out... and the other chicks where all like "awww" and totally "Jaw on floor"

Later he was leaving work and the other HB's from the shop saw him and approached him and said "That was so cool and brave of u to do, dont let it put u down and just keep doin what u do!!!"

Proof, that chicks respect guys with balls.... And if that aint proof enough, he boned 2 of them that same night.... at once

My advice. If ur gonna do it, and there is other HB's in the shop make sure they see it hahah

Good Luck!

awesome story