"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How to get this girl to go out with me?

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She kinda says open this day but like that's it how can I get her agree to see me?

Me: hey what days you free this week
her: not til Saturday my weeks gonna be crazy because of the reds and cubs coming in town this week oh ill be free tonight prolly but we are all going to bpv in about an hour.

me: have fun
her: Im sure I will! Home opener is like a freaking national holiday for me but thank you :) Hope ya have a good day
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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thelonewolflegend said:
She kinda says open this day but like that's it how can I get her agree to see me?

Me: hey what days you free this week
her: not til Saturday my weeks gonna be crazy because of the reds and cubs coming in town this week oh ill be free tonight prolly but we are all going to bpv in about an hour.

me: have fun
her: Im sure I will! Home opener is like a freaking national holiday for me but thank you :) Hope ya have a good day
You can't "get" her to go out with you. You ask her. You get your response. If yes, you go out. If no, you delete her number and move on. End of story.
 

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stealth bragging thread
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why hasn't this retarded :cuss: been banned yet?
 
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ok problem is I tried your advice and I said Thanks I got some time tonight getting off work we should get together for a bit later to get a drink?

She says Well Im on Market
I said How bout we meet up at lucas on 9pm?

she ignored me and sent text today
I just saw this I feel soooo bad My phone had died and I didn't charge it till we got to IL again im soo sorry.
 

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I said SATURDAY, not that same evening when you posted here initially!

Never ask a woman last minute on the same day to meet - she just blew you off (probably was with another guy and ignored you at the end) with a fantastic laughable excuse.

She smelled your neediness and didn't know how to reject you so she ignored you instead. Always plan ahead to meet up with a woman, especially a new one you don't know too well.

Go NC with her now for a week or two, and try again. Make her hamster spin for that duration of time.
 
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thanks for the advice I will ignore her and hit her up in 2 weeks and do something in advance.
 
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