"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to get this girl to go out with me?

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She kinda says open this day but like that's it how can I get her agree to see me?

Me: hey what days you free this week
her: not til Saturday my weeks gonna be crazy because of the reds and cubs coming in town this week oh ill be free tonight prolly but we are all going to bpv in about an hour.

me: have fun
her: Im sure I will! Home opener is like a freaking national holiday for me but thank you :) Hope ya have a good day
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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thelonewolflegend said:
She kinda says open this day but like that's it how can I get her agree to see me?

Me: hey what days you free this week
her: not til Saturday my weeks gonna be crazy because of the reds and cubs coming in town this week oh ill be free tonight prolly but we are all going to bpv in about an hour.

me: have fun
her: Im sure I will! Home opener is like a freaking national holiday for me but thank you :) Hope ya have a good day
You can't "get" her to go out with you. You ask her. You get your response. If yes, you go out. If no, you delete her number and move on. End of story.
 

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stealth bragging thread
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why hasn't this retarded :cuss: been banned yet?
 
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ok problem is I tried your advice and I said Thanks I got some time tonight getting off work we should get together for a bit later to get a drink?

She says Well Im on Market
I said How bout we meet up at lucas on 9pm?

she ignored me and sent text today
I just saw this I feel soooo bad My phone had died and I didn't charge it till we got to IL again im soo sorry.
 

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I said SATURDAY, not that same evening when you posted here initially!

Never ask a woman last minute on the same day to meet - she just blew you off (probably was with another guy and ignored you at the end) with a fantastic laughable excuse.

She smelled your neediness and didn't know how to reject you so she ignored you instead. Always plan ahead to meet up with a woman, especially a new one you don't know too well.

Go NC with her now for a week or two, and try again. Make her hamster spin for that duration of time.
 
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thanks for the advice I will ignore her and hit her up in 2 weeks and do something in advance.
 
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