"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to get this girl to come out with me?

k201

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Okay fellas have not been on here in a while, but heres the deal.

One of my best family friends is in a sorority here on campus. Just recently I decided I wanted one of her pledge sisters. Now my family friend told me that this girl, lets call her C, thinks I'm adorable. Shes been writing on my facebook wall and I just need a way of getting her to come out with me....

As of now I think my best option is to tell my family friend to come over one night and bring C with her? Or should I go directly to C? What should I do!?! AHHHHH
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Gangster Of Love

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Either option is good. Just make sure if you go directly, which I would,you do it in person, and not over the net.
 

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Yes obviously I would rather do it in person but the thing I forgot to mention is I hardly EVER see this girl. I've only met her like twice and both times were when we were out and we just ran into each other.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Go online and say: Hey I havn't seen/talked to you in awhile. We should get together sometime. If she agrees.. Get her number then say; "Alright, cool. I gotta go now but, I'll give you a call soon."
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Go online and say: Hey I havn't seen/talked to you in awhile. We should get together sometime. If she agrees.. Get her number then say; "Alright, cool. I gotta go now but, I'll give you a call soon."
x2 :up:

Thats what I do and it works. :cool:
It should be even easier for you since she already shows interest in you. Just remember to have FUN when your with her! :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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