"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to get this girl to come out with me?

k201

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Okay fellas have not been on here in a while, but heres the deal.

One of my best family friends is in a sorority here on campus. Just recently I decided I wanted one of her pledge sisters. Now my family friend told me that this girl, lets call her C, thinks I'm adorable. Shes been writing on my facebook wall and I just need a way of getting her to come out with me....

As of now I think my best option is to tell my family friend to come over one night and bring C with her? Or should I go directly to C? What should I do!?! AHHHHH
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Gangster Of Love

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Either option is good. Just make sure if you go directly, which I would,you do it in person, and not over the net.
 

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Yes obviously I would rather do it in person but the thing I forgot to mention is I hardly EVER see this girl. I've only met her like twice and both times were when we were out and we just ran into each other.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Go online and say: Hey I havn't seen/talked to you in awhile. We should get together sometime. If she agrees.. Get her number then say; "Alright, cool. I gotta go now but, I'll give you a call soon."
 

Triple T

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Go online and say: Hey I havn't seen/talked to you in awhile. We should get together sometime. If she agrees.. Get her number then say; "Alright, cool. I gotta go now but, I'll give you a call soon."
x2 :up:

Thats what I do and it works. :cool:
It should be even easier for you since she already shows interest in you. Just remember to have FUN when your with her! :D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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