"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to get this girl to come out with me?

k201

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Okay fellas have not been on here in a while, but heres the deal.

One of my best family friends is in a sorority here on campus. Just recently I decided I wanted one of her pledge sisters. Now my family friend told me that this girl, lets call her C, thinks I'm adorable. Shes been writing on my facebook wall and I just need a way of getting her to come out with me....

As of now I think my best option is to tell my family friend to come over one night and bring C with her? Or should I go directly to C? What should I do!?! AHHHHH
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Gangster Of Love

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Either option is good. Just make sure if you go directly, which I would,you do it in person, and not over the net.
 

k201

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Yes obviously I would rather do it in person but the thing I forgot to mention is I hardly EVER see this girl. I've only met her like twice and both times were when we were out and we just ran into each other.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Go online and say: Hey I havn't seen/talked to you in awhile. We should get together sometime. If she agrees.. Get her number then say; "Alright, cool. I gotta go now but, I'll give you a call soon."
 

Triple T

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Go online and say: Hey I havn't seen/talked to you in awhile. We should get together sometime. If she agrees.. Get her number then say; "Alright, cool. I gotta go now but, I'll give you a call soon."
x2 :up:

Thats what I do and it works. :cool:
It should be even easier for you since she already shows interest in you. Just remember to have FUN when your with her! :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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