"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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thank you

I found some rather good posts that I would never have found any other way.
 
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cool!

My days posting on this site might be over for a while.
 
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It's too bad some of the best posts are too old to get voted on.

Don't forget that—as of this post—there are 99 pages of Tips, guys!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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do you think that it sorts the rating randomly, as in a random collection of all the 5star posts?

it's also a good idea to search the other forums by number of views, especially the HS forum. you find all the best writers are at the top of the list

cheers duke and metalfortress for the idea
 
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this post deserves a BUMP!
 
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Originally posted by gav
do you think that it sorts the rating randomly, as in a random collection of all the 5star posts?

it's also a good idea to search the other forums by number of views, especially the HS forum. you find all the best writers are at the top of the list

cheers duke and metalfortress for the idea
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The ratings are rounded up (4.8 = 5, for example), so it's the highest 5's first.
 
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I am Disappointed!

Hey Buddies,
This site is really gold.
I am really disappointed that i discovered this site when the golden years of my life past away.
It really saddens my heart.


Any way can I request to Moderator to make an offline version of these tips? Like we do have for the bible??

Thanks for your wisdom buddies.

Tuffy
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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thanks for the link. found many a great post i've never seen before. thanks!!!!
 
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