"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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thank you

I found some rather good posts that I would never have found any other way.
 
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cool!

My days posting on this site might be over for a while.
 

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It's too bad some of the best posts are too old to get voted on.

Don't forget that—as of this post—there are 99 pages of Tips, guys!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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do you think that it sorts the rating randomly, as in a random collection of all the 5star posts?

it's also a good idea to search the other forums by number of views, especially the HS forum. you find all the best writers are at the top of the list

cheers duke and metalfortress for the idea
 

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this post deserves a BUMP!
 

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Originally posted by gav
do you think that it sorts the rating randomly, as in a random collection of all the 5star posts?

it's also a good idea to search the other forums by number of views, especially the HS forum. you find all the best writers are at the top of the list

cheers duke and metalfortress for the idea
The ratings are rounded up (4.8 = 5, for example), so it's the highest 5's first.
 

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I am Disappointed!

Hey Buddies,
This site is really gold.
I am really disappointed that i discovered this site when the golden years of my life past away.
It really saddens my heart.


Any way can I request to Moderator to make an offline version of these tips? Like we do have for the bible??

Thanks for your wisdom buddies.

Tuffy
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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thanks for the link. found many a great post i've never seen before. thanks!!!!
 
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