"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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thank you

I found some rather good posts that I would never have found any other way.
 
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cool!

My days posting on this site might be over for a while.
 

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It's too bad some of the best posts are too old to get voted on.

Don't forget that—as of this post—there are 99 pages of Tips, guys!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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do you think that it sorts the rating randomly, as in a random collection of all the 5star posts?

it's also a good idea to search the other forums by number of views, especially the HS forum. you find all the best writers are at the top of the list

cheers duke and metalfortress for the idea
 

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this post deserves a BUMP!
 

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Originally posted by gav
do you think that it sorts the rating randomly, as in a random collection of all the 5star posts?

it's also a good idea to search the other forums by number of views, especially the HS forum. you find all the best writers are at the top of the list

cheers duke and metalfortress for the idea
The ratings are rounded up (4.8 = 5, for example), so it's the highest 5's first.
 

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I am Disappointed!

Hey Buddies,
This site is really gold.
I am really disappointed that i discovered this site when the golden years of my life past away.
It really saddens my heart.


Any way can I request to Moderator to make an offline version of these tips? Like we do have for the bible??

Thanks for your wisdom buddies.

Tuffy
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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thanks for the link. found many a great post i've never seen before. thanks!!!!
 
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