"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How to get rid of this ? (Pic included)
- Thread starter youngmack
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
I'm not clicking that link because you've not said what it is an i dont want to end up seeing a picture of your d1ck.
Looks like razor burn/bumps. Use a razor with only 1 blade. It could be a straight razor, double or single edged safety razor, or one of those cheap disposable ones that come in packages of like 50.
Multiple blades can tug and drag too much on skin, thus causing more irritation. I have the same problem if I use razors with 3, 4, or even 5 blades.
Multiple blades can tug and drag too much on skin, thus causing more irritation. I have the same problem if I use razors with 3, 4, or even 5 blades.
youngmack
Master Don Juan
TheStig said:
Thanks, i never knew this. And will all of this heal itself or what should i do besides switching razors?
youngmack
Master Don Juan
Lmao its a pic of my neckPurefilth said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yup, all you gotta do is remove the source of irritation and they'll go away, maybe not completely, but they will be significantly reduced. I'd suggest to speed things up, get an aftershave gel for sensitive skin.youngmack said:
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user43770
Guest
Splash your face with cold water after you're done shaving. That will help to close your pores. Apply some witch hazel next. God that stuff smells funny, but it sure is soothing. I would use some aloe if you still have irritation. I keep mine in the fridge.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
This is serious. Your p*nis has an adam's apple. Seek medical help immediately.
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user43770
Guest
Better yet, buy a cheap fog-free mirror and shave during your shower. I shave my head with a blade and I always had irritation until I started shaving in the shower.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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user43770
Guest
Quit using those cheap dollarcstore razors or whichever ones you use. You probably have sensitive skin. Invest some money into getting yourself an electric razor. Wash the area with warm after you shave. Rinse with cold and pat the area dry with a towel.