"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to get rid of scarring on my face?

catlovesfood

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Hey guys, ive had pimple scars on my face for years, and quite frankly its destroying my confidence. It literally looks like mud has been sprayed on my face.

I want to get rid of them are ther any suggestions?

Also the type of scarring is hyperpigmentation, it occurs in caucasians and dark skinned people.

Any help would be appriciated. :eek:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Also i have seen the dermatologist for years and they say they cant use lasers or anything else because of my skin color.

I use some kind of cream, but it doesnt work - I have been using it for about 4 years and the darkness of the spots/scars have come down maybe 10 - 20%.
 

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I had the same problem.

There are some soaps that heals scars left by pimples and that kind of stuff.

Also try some clay masks.

I can't exactly tell you which product you should use because I'm from Costa Rica and they probably won't be available near your place.

Remember to keep hidrated and eat well, too. Doing exercise helps too. It's good to sweat.
 

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You forgot to mention, are they red, flat scars, or indented scars?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My scarring is generally flat dark brown scars. It really contrasts against my olive complexion. :eek:
 

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Originally posted by catlovesfood
My scarring is generally flat dark brown scars. It really contrasts against my olive complexion. :eek:
Those generally take a while to disappear. Exfoliate to make them leave quicker, since they leave when dead skin leaves.
 
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