"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to get rid of scarring on my face?

catlovesfood

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Hey guys, ive had pimple scars on my face for years, and quite frankly its destroying my confidence. It literally looks like mud has been sprayed on my face.

I want to get rid of them are ther any suggestions?

Also the type of scarring is hyperpigmentation, it occurs in caucasians and dark skinned people.

Any help would be appriciated. :eek:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Also i have seen the dermatologist for years and they say they cant use lasers or anything else because of my skin color.

I use some kind of cream, but it doesnt work - I have been using it for about 4 years and the darkness of the spots/scars have come down maybe 10 - 20%.
 

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I had the same problem.

There are some soaps that heals scars left by pimples and that kind of stuff.

Also try some clay masks.

I can't exactly tell you which product you should use because I'm from Costa Rica and they probably won't be available near your place.

Remember to keep hidrated and eat well, too. Doing exercise helps too. It's good to sweat.
 

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You forgot to mention, are they red, flat scars, or indented scars?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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My scarring is generally flat dark brown scars. It really contrasts against my olive complexion. :eek:
 

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Originally posted by catlovesfood
My scarring is generally flat dark brown scars. It really contrasts against my olive complexion. :eek:
Those generally take a while to disappear. Exfoliate to make them leave quicker, since they leave when dead skin leaves.
 
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