"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How to get rid of embarrassment...instantly!!

legolas

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This is a quick and simple technique to get rid of embarrassment instantly the moment you start feeling it.

Step 1.
Focus on the task at hand (like approaching the girl or whatever) and block out the world. They don't matter right now.

Step 2.
Say to yourself: "Whatever happens this is going to make a hell of a story. In fact I can't wait to do this so I can call up my friend and tell him how it all went down"

Step 3.
Follow through with your promise. As soon as you're done doing whatever, call up one of your friends and tell them exactly what happened, no matter how sh*tty or embarrassing it was. Make sure you make fun of yourself and laugh at your story especially if you f*cked up and embarrassed yourself.

I guarantee that by the second or third time you use this technique, all your embarrassment will be gone.

--Legolas
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ollie

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legolas said:
Step 2.
Say to yourself: "Whatever happens this is going to make a hell of a story. In fact I can't wait to do this so I can call up my friend and tell him how it all went down"
--Legolas
haha I like this. It's perfect.
 

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sooo true, im known among my friends as the guy that always fails and has the most retarded stories.

my friends used to blackmail me into approaching girls, i guess its helped alot.

sometimes i pronounced my own name wrong because i stuttered so much or i would even forget to give my name.

i would have all these dialogues planned out and rehearsed and they have never went 100% as planned. even now.

i wing it half the time now.

good memories.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i was always the really shy type around girls i liked or specific ones that people wanted me to approach and i would never do it. I had no problem with ones that i knew were interested in me even if i didn't know them. My friends would then call me out with stuff like if i talk to this chick u gotta talk to that one, and as a bro....i couldn't leave them hanging and i always approached even though more than half the time it went bad. They would also blackmail me into approaching girls i liked, if i didn't do it myself they would go up to them and say the dumbest things about it. it happened once and i never let it happen again. i find it all a big game and a thrilling one at that so i never really give up.
 
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