legolas
Master Don Juan
This is a quick and simple technique to get rid of embarrassment instantly the moment you start feeling it.
Step 1.
Focus on the task at hand (like approaching the girl or whatever) and block out the world. They don't matter right now.
Step 2.
Say to yourself: "Whatever happens this is going to make a hell of a story. In fact I can't wait to do this so I can call up my friend and tell him how it all went down"
Step 3.
Follow through with your promise. As soon as you're done doing whatever, call up one of your friends and tell them exactly what happened, no matter how sh*tty or embarrassing it was. Make sure you make fun of yourself and laugh at your story especially if you f*cked up and embarrassed yourself.
I guarantee that by the second or third time you use this technique, all your embarrassment will be gone.
--Legolas
Step 1.
Focus on the task at hand (like approaching the girl or whatever) and block out the world. They don't matter right now.
Step 2.
Say to yourself: "Whatever happens this is going to make a hell of a story. In fact I can't wait to do this so I can call up my friend and tell him how it all went down"
Step 3.
Follow through with your promise. As soon as you're done doing whatever, call up one of your friends and tell them exactly what happened, no matter how sh*tty or embarrassing it was. Make sure you make fun of yourself and laugh at your story especially if you f*cked up and embarrassed yourself.
I guarantee that by the second or third time you use this technique, all your embarrassment will be gone.
--Legolas