Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I never get them but I was in line a teh super market, and this dude, was getting something for hsi cold sore, the reason how I know was, he was going back anf forth with the cashier dude about how much it was.. I think it was like $16? ...and it was this small tube. I said $16?!?! ..does that stuff work?' and he said yes. *shrugs* it was over the counter crap.... so try some of that over the counter sh*t bro.... and stop putting your face in some nasty sh*t.Originally posted by Qualtran
Dryness, chapped lips, illness, getting snot from your nose on your lips, sunlight and things like that are some of the causes I can think of.
There are lots of treatment options including prescriptions. There are some interesting methods in which a 9-volt battery is used to essentially shock the cold sore to death, although im not sure if that actually works.
Prevention: there are some prescription pills said to prevent coldsores for prolonged periods of time, although the best bet is to sense that you are getting one early then apply something like Campho-Phenique before it forms. I used to get coldsores a few years back, but now I can always tell when I'm about to get one and I am able to prevent it by applying that stuff.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Canker sores are shallow, painful sores in your mouth. They are usually red or may sometimes have a white coating over them. You might get them on the inside of your lips, the insides of your cheeks or under your tongue. Canker sores are different from fever blisters, which usually are on the outside of your lips or the corners of your mouth.Originally posted by WestCoaster
OK, I get lots of these painful b-stards and have my whole life and I cannot get rid of them. They're those white colored circles that hit your gums, lips, tounge and everything else inside your mouth. I've got like three right now and it is freakin' painful.
Anyone have a solution?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Thanks man really helpfulRe: And how about canker sores?!
Canker sores are shallow, painful sores in your mouth. They are usually red or may sometimes have a white coating over them. You might get them on the inside of your lips, the insides of your cheeks or under your tongue. Canker sores are different from fever blisters, which usually are on the outside of your lips or the corners of your mouth.
Anyone can get canker sores, but people in their teens and 20s get them more often. Canker sores may run in families, but they aren't contagious. Doctors don't know what causes canker sores, but stress may be a factor.
If you have small canker sores you can treat them at home. You can try taking ibuprofen (brand name: Advil) or acetaminophen (brand name: Tylenol) for pain. Other medicines, such as Anbesol, Oragel, Orabase and Zilactin-B, might keep your canker sores from becoming irritated by eating, drinking or brushing your teeth. You put these medicines right on the sore.
You can also mix equal amounts of Milk of Magnesia and Benadryl Allergy liquid. After it's mixed, you can swish a teaspoonful in your mouth for about 1 minute and then spit it out. If you do this every 4 to 6 hours, your canker sores may hurt less.
Some people think that sucking on zinc lozenges, taking vitamin C or vitamin B complex, using a sage-and-chamomile mouthwash or taking a lysine supplement helps their canker cores heal faster.
If your canker sores are large, last longer than a week or are so sore that you can't eat, you should make an appointment to see your doctor. You should make an appointment with your doctor, too, if you also have a fever or feel sick when you have canker sores.
Several prescription medicines may help with canker sores. Your doctor may prescribe an anti-inflammatory (Aphthasol or Kenalog in Orabase) or collagenase inhibitor (Tetracycline or Peridex) if problems persist. You can talk about them with your doctor to decide what is best for you.
Hope this helps, West.
By the way, does a mod feel like moving this thread over to Health & Fitness, where it belongs? Thanks.
Oh, about cold sores: For the whole story from WebMD, go here:
Tea tree oilDamn i hate cold sores, for some reason i tend to get them quite often.
what do u guys know about causes of cold sores (cold? heat change?)
What about treatment?
What about prevention?
Thanks.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
its type 1 herpes or hsv1. stop eating dirty box. I've never gone down on a woman and I never will. absolutely disgusting.Damn i hate cold sores, for some reason i tend to get them quite often.
what do u guys know about causes of cold sores (cold? heat change?)
What about treatment?
What about prevention?
Thanks.
Only if it's sushi grade:I've never gone down on a woman and I never will. absolutely disgusting.
mad proteinOnly if it's sushi grade:
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That or omelettes!mad protein