Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I never get them but I was in line a teh super market, and this dude, was getting something for hsi cold sore, the reason how I know was, he was going back anf forth with the cashier dude about how much it was.. I think it was like $16? ...and it was this small tube. I said $16?!?! ..does that stuff work?' and he said yes. *shrugs* it was over the counter crap.... so try some of that over the counter sh*t bro.... and stop putting your face in some nasty sh*t.Originally posted by Qualtran
Dryness, chapped lips, illness, getting snot from your nose on your lips, sunlight and things like that are some of the causes I can think of.
There are lots of treatment options including prescriptions. There are some interesting methods in which a 9-volt battery is used to essentially shock the cold sore to death, although im not sure if that actually works.
Prevention: there are some prescription pills said to prevent coldsores for prolonged periods of time, although the best bet is to sense that you are getting one early then apply something like Campho-Phenique before it forms. I used to get coldsores a few years back, but now I can always tell when I'm about to get one and I am able to prevent it by applying that stuff.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Canker sores are shallow, painful sores in your mouth. They are usually red or may sometimes have a white coating over them. You might get them on the inside of your lips, the insides of your cheeks or under your tongue. Canker sores are different from fever blisters, which usually are on the outside of your lips or the corners of your mouth.Originally posted by WestCoaster
OK, I get lots of these painful b-stards and have my whole life and I cannot get rid of them. They're those white colored circles that hit your gums, lips, tounge and everything else inside your mouth. I've got like three right now and it is freakin' painful.
Anyone have a solution?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Thanks man really helpfulRe: And how about canker sores?!
Canker sores are shallow, painful sores in your mouth. They are usually red or may sometimes have a white coating over them. You might get them on the inside of your lips, the insides of your cheeks or under your tongue. Canker sores are different from fever blisters, which usually are on the outside of your lips or the corners of your mouth.
Anyone can get canker sores, but people in their teens and 20s get them more often. Canker sores may run in families, but they aren't contagious. Doctors don't know what causes canker sores, but stress may be a factor.
If you have small canker sores you can treat them at home. You can try taking ibuprofen (brand name: Advil) or acetaminophen (brand name: Tylenol) for pain. Other medicines, such as Anbesol, Oragel, Orabase and Zilactin-B, might keep your canker sores from becoming irritated by eating, drinking or brushing your teeth. You put these medicines right on the sore.
You can also mix equal amounts of Milk of Magnesia and Benadryl Allergy liquid. After it's mixed, you can swish a teaspoonful in your mouth for about 1 minute and then spit it out. If you do this every 4 to 6 hours, your canker sores may hurt less.
Some people think that sucking on zinc lozenges, taking vitamin C or vitamin B complex, using a sage-and-chamomile mouthwash or taking a lysine supplement helps their canker cores heal faster.
If your canker sores are large, last longer than a week or are so sore that you can't eat, you should make an appointment to see your doctor. You should make an appointment with your doctor, too, if you also have a fever or feel sick when you have canker sores.
Several prescription medicines may help with canker sores. Your doctor may prescribe an anti-inflammatory (Aphthasol or Kenalog in Orabase) or collagenase inhibitor (Tetracycline or Peridex) if problems persist. You can talk about them with your doctor to decide what is best for you.
Hope this helps, West.
By the way, does a mod feel like moving this thread over to Health & Fitness, where it belongs? Thanks.
Oh, about cold sores: For the whole story from WebMD, go here:
Tea tree oilDamn i hate cold sores, for some reason i tend to get them quite often.
what do u guys know about causes of cold sores (cold? heat change?)
What about treatment?
What about prevention?
Thanks.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
its type 1 herpes or hsv1. stop eating dirty box. I've never gone down on a woman and I never will. absolutely disgusting.Damn i hate cold sores, for some reason i tend to get them quite often.
what do u guys know about causes of cold sores (cold? heat change?)
What about treatment?
What about prevention?
Thanks.
Only if it's sushi grade:I've never gone down on a woman and I never will. absolutely disgusting.
mad proteinOnly if it's sushi grade:
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That or omelettes!mad protein