"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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how to get respect from people younger than me?

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people nowadays don't seem to respect older people as they used to do in past so i wonder how can i get them to respect me in the same way they might respect their teachers or parents or something like that?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Pro gamer I take it you are a gamer. In that case I will suggest you quit as soon as possible just like cigarettes even one pack a week is bad for your health. And if I were you I would look to get a remote job.
 

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You shouldn't be worried about respect from other people.

The most important thing is self respect..when you sense people not respecting you, they've probably sensed that YOU don't respect yourself. Thus it becomes a downward spiral. And eventually it will show through you literally not respecting yourself by not chasing excellence.

You gotta stop GAF about what "they " think of you bro..by the way, what's your definition of respect or being respected? Again, if you respect yourself it will show in every thing you do. E.g i will respect a well dressed man over a dusty old fart sweat smelling dude.


Respect is always earned and never given...
 

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If you expect people to respect you just because you're 'older', you will be disappointed.

People in general respect me because they don't want to get too acquainted with my violent side.
Hi Amsterdam,
Konrad Lorenz,known as the Father of Modern Ethology wrote once...Something to the effect that....Of all the known Primates,(Ape like creatures),Man is the only species that copies the behaviour of the young!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Your looks, money and status decide how attractive you are to women.

Your size, proportions, accomplishments and life style decide how worthy of respect you are.
 
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