"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to get out of the LJBF zone?!?!!?

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surfdog

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hey guys
I am aware of the fact that once you get into 'the zone' you usually stay in there..but I want to know if there are ANY way i can try and get out of it and maybe start over?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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thatguyjamalx

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Sorry to say man, but your screwed, it's gonna take a miracle or 3 to get you out of the zone.

Not to worry though, just game her friends. and make sure she hears about it.
 
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dav22

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It's possible but by the time you've done all the steps to get out you'll probably find you're not still interested in her.
 
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WesCottII

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Why would you want to? Women put you there because they think it would work. Don't kid yourself, it wouldn't.

There are plenty of women who arn't your friend. Go after one of them.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dav22

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Again, like i said.. it is possible, ignore these guys as i've managed to do it myself. Ganji games is a good start. If you want any specific advice send me a PM and i'll try to help.
 
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SickAgain

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My advice is stop seeing/talking to that person for a few years. Then reacquaint yourself with them when your DJ skills are up to par. Then you won't be a friend anymore, she'll probably see you in a different light. It does happen.
 
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young_gun

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Did you use kino / touch on her? In my experience, that's what makes the biggest difference.
 
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