"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to get out of the LJBF zone?!?!!?

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surfdog

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hey guys
I am aware of the fact that once you get into 'the zone' you usually stay in there..but I want to know if there are ANY way i can try and get out of it and maybe start over?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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thatguyjamalx

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Sorry to say man, but your screwed, it's gonna take a miracle or 3 to get you out of the zone.

Not to worry though, just game her friends. and make sure she hears about it.
 
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dav22

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It's possible but by the time you've done all the steps to get out you'll probably find you're not still interested in her.
 
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WesCottII

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Why would you want to? Women put you there because they think it would work. Don't kid yourself, it wouldn't.

There are plenty of women who arn't your friend. Go after one of them.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dav22

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Again, like i said.. it is possible, ignore these guys as i've managed to do it myself. Ganji games is a good start. If you want any specific advice send me a PM and i'll try to help.
 
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My advice is stop seeing/talking to that person for a few years. Then reacquaint yourself with them when your DJ skills are up to par. Then you won't be a friend anymore, she'll probably see you in a different light. It does happen.
 
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Did you use kino / touch on her? In my experience, that's what makes the biggest difference.
 
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