"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to Get "Out of Bed" Messy Hair Look

Kerensky

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I would like to know. What products do you use? Here's a pic of what I'm looking for.

http://i.timeinc.net/teenpeople/images/2004/25hottest/profile_gyllenhaal.jpg

That's Jake Gyllenhaal.

By the way, diablo or anyone else, don't close this thread because it's been started blah blah. No it hasn't. THe other threads had no answers. I challenge you to give me a helpful link if you say it has been done before.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Use this stuff called Bed Head or something along those lines, it's only available in hair salons, it's basically this thing that looks like a stick of deodorant, and you just rub in circles in your hair and it gives a messy scruffy look.
 

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Originally posted by Warboss Alex
I think you should sleep on it ..
Haha, there are many gels or waxes that suits your needs. Just apply it on your hands and shake your hands through your hair like crazy and you got it.

You don't have to start trying on some explensive hair dresser one's. Try out some supermarket stuff first. Read the discription, it's all told on the package what the stuff is for.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Phoenix_of_the_ashes
In Germany Loreal makes a gel called "Out of Bed", that would be it.
I recall even using that stuff, it's ok.
 

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wax or gel makes your hair look shiny if you soak your hair in it. Unless it's a special product to make your hair shiny.
 

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Alright thanks guys. I tried pomade...didn't hold strong enough.

Then I tried this got2b glue. Sh1t works GREAT. So if anyone wants to give that a go, try it out. Funny this is, it comes out like a liquid, but foams up really fast into a mousse like thing, but it holds hella strong. Thanks fellas.
 

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So you're going to turn gay now after watching Brokeback Mountain.
 

Kerensky

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Originally posted by Warlord
So you're going to turn gay now after watching Brokeback Mountain.
Are you sure you're 21+ ? It sure doesn't seem like it how you posted. If you can't control your emotions online, I wonder what you're like in real life....

Anyhow, I got some updates. TOWEL DRY your hair. I used to blow dry...it poofed up and I looked like a guinea pig with a current running through it. If I towel dry, I can put some in my head, ruffle with my hands or the towel again and it'll look really natural.

Also, apply in clumps. like a little glue to a little patch of hair and continue. I found that if I do it too much, my hair gets too heavy and falls down.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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either you have that type of hair or you don't

my hair is like that without any products
 

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Just put some relatively strong wax in your hair and **** it up with your hands, really go to town. Maybe invest in some hairspray (yeah, they do make it for guys) to fix the style for the rest of the day/night. There have actually been times when I've gone to bed with wax in my hair from a night out and woke up with it looking excellent - I don't touch it, I just keep it for the rest of the day.
 
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First of all u need medium-long hair once you have that it's easy just shower the night before then put gell in your hell and go to sleep when you wake up... BINGO you have a hair that's all done and ready to go.
 

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I just wet my hair and throw some shampoo into it. If I don't rinse it out, my hair is gelled for the evening, and it doesn't get smelly.

Only problem is, after I rub it a little after I start to sweat from playing table hockey, it starts to foam around the edges which makes for weird conversations;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by PeterNorthisawesome
First of all u need medium-long hair once you have that it's easy just shower the night before then put gell in your hell and go to sleep when you wake up... BINGO you have a hair that's all done and ready to go.
Dude, that is EXACTLY what I tried last night. WORKS LIKE A FREAKIN CHARM. Thanks my fellow messy haired DJs. :up:
 

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Originally posted by Kerensky
Are you sure you're 21+ ? It sure doesn't seem like it how you posted. If you can't control your emotions online, I wonder what you're like in real life....

Please, I'm not gay. But feel free to join the gay straight alliance in the high school forum.
 
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