"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to Get "Out of Bed" Messy Hair Look

Kerensky

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I would like to know. What products do you use? Here's a pic of what I'm looking for.

http://i.timeinc.net/teenpeople/images/2004/25hottest/profile_gyllenhaal.jpg

That's Jake Gyllenhaal.

By the way, diablo or anyone else, don't close this thread because it's been started blah blah. No it hasn't. THe other threads had no answers. I challenge you to give me a helpful link if you say it has been done before.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Use this stuff called Bed Head or something along those lines, it's only available in hair salons, it's basically this thing that looks like a stick of deodorant, and you just rub in circles in your hair and it gives a messy scruffy look.
 

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Originally posted by Warboss Alex
I think you should sleep on it ..
Haha, there are many gels or waxes that suits your needs. Just apply it on your hands and shake your hands through your hair like crazy and you got it.

You don't have to start trying on some explensive hair dresser one's. Try out some supermarket stuff first. Read the discription, it's all told on the package what the stuff is for.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Phoenix_of_the_ashes
In Germany Loreal makes a gel called "Out of Bed", that would be it.
I recall even using that stuff, it's ok.
 

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wax or gel makes your hair look shiny if you soak your hair in it. Unless it's a special product to make your hair shiny.
 

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Alright thanks guys. I tried pomade...didn't hold strong enough.

Then I tried this got2b glue. Sh1t works GREAT. So if anyone wants to give that a go, try it out. Funny this is, it comes out like a liquid, but foams up really fast into a mousse like thing, but it holds hella strong. Thanks fellas.
 

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So you're going to turn gay now after watching Brokeback Mountain.
 

Kerensky

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Originally posted by Warlord
So you're going to turn gay now after watching Brokeback Mountain.
Are you sure you're 21+ ? It sure doesn't seem like it how you posted. If you can't control your emotions online, I wonder what you're like in real life....

Anyhow, I got some updates. TOWEL DRY your hair. I used to blow dry...it poofed up and I looked like a guinea pig with a current running through it. If I towel dry, I can put some in my head, ruffle with my hands or the towel again and it'll look really natural.

Also, apply in clumps. like a little glue to a little patch of hair and continue. I found that if I do it too much, my hair gets too heavy and falls down.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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either you have that type of hair or you don't

my hair is like that without any products
 

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Just put some relatively strong wax in your hair and **** it up with your hands, really go to town. Maybe invest in some hairspray (yeah, they do make it for guys) to fix the style for the rest of the day/night. There have actually been times when I've gone to bed with wax in my hair from a night out and woke up with it looking excellent - I don't touch it, I just keep it for the rest of the day.
 
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First of all u need medium-long hair once you have that it's easy just shower the night before then put gell in your hell and go to sleep when you wake up... BINGO you have a hair that's all done and ready to go.
 

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I just wet my hair and throw some shampoo into it. If I don't rinse it out, my hair is gelled for the evening, and it doesn't get smelly.

Only problem is, after I rub it a little after I start to sweat from playing table hockey, it starts to foam around the edges which makes for weird conversations;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by PeterNorthisawesome
First of all u need medium-long hair once you have that it's easy just shower the night before then put gell in your hell and go to sleep when you wake up... BINGO you have a hair that's all done and ready to go.
Dude, that is EXACTLY what I tried last night. WORKS LIKE A FREAKIN CHARM. Thanks my fellow messy haired DJs. :up:
 

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Originally posted by Kerensky
Are you sure you're 21+ ? It sure doesn't seem like it how you posted. If you can't control your emotions online, I wonder what you're like in real life....

Please, I'm not gay. But feel free to join the gay straight alliance in the high school forum.
 
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