"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to Get "Out of Bed" Messy Hair Look

Kerensky

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I would like to know. What products do you use? Here's a pic of what I'm looking for.

http://i.timeinc.net/teenpeople/images/2004/25hottest/profile_gyllenhaal.jpg

That's Jake Gyllenhaal.

By the way, diablo or anyone else, don't close this thread because it's been started blah blah. No it hasn't. THe other threads had no answers. I challenge you to give me a helpful link if you say it has been done before.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Use this stuff called Bed Head or something along those lines, it's only available in hair salons, it's basically this thing that looks like a stick of deodorant, and you just rub in circles in your hair and it gives a messy scruffy look.
 

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Originally posted by Warboss Alex
I think you should sleep on it ..
Haha, there are many gels or waxes that suits your needs. Just apply it on your hands and shake your hands through your hair like crazy and you got it.

You don't have to start trying on some explensive hair dresser one's. Try out some supermarket stuff first. Read the discription, it's all told on the package what the stuff is for.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Phoenix_of_the_ashes
In Germany Loreal makes a gel called "Out of Bed", that would be it.
I recall even using that stuff, it's ok.
 

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wax or gel makes your hair look shiny if you soak your hair in it. Unless it's a special product to make your hair shiny.
 

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Alright thanks guys. I tried pomade...didn't hold strong enough.

Then I tried this got2b glue. Sh1t works GREAT. So if anyone wants to give that a go, try it out. Funny this is, it comes out like a liquid, but foams up really fast into a mousse like thing, but it holds hella strong. Thanks fellas.
 

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So you're going to turn gay now after watching Brokeback Mountain.
 

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Originally posted by Warlord
So you're going to turn gay now after watching Brokeback Mountain.
Are you sure you're 21+ ? It sure doesn't seem like it how you posted. If you can't control your emotions online, I wonder what you're like in real life....

Anyhow, I got some updates. TOWEL DRY your hair. I used to blow dry...it poofed up and I looked like a guinea pig with a current running through it. If I towel dry, I can put some in my head, ruffle with my hands or the towel again and it'll look really natural.

Also, apply in clumps. like a little glue to a little patch of hair and continue. I found that if I do it too much, my hair gets too heavy and falls down.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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either you have that type of hair or you don't

my hair is like that without any products
 

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Just put some relatively strong wax in your hair and **** it up with your hands, really go to town. Maybe invest in some hairspray (yeah, they do make it for guys) to fix the style for the rest of the day/night. There have actually been times when I've gone to bed with wax in my hair from a night out and woke up with it looking excellent - I don't touch it, I just keep it for the rest of the day.
 
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First of all u need medium-long hair once you have that it's easy just shower the night before then put gell in your hell and go to sleep when you wake up... BINGO you have a hair that's all done and ready to go.
 

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I just wet my hair and throw some shampoo into it. If I don't rinse it out, my hair is gelled for the evening, and it doesn't get smelly.

Only problem is, after I rub it a little after I start to sweat from playing table hockey, it starts to foam around the edges which makes for weird conversations;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by PeterNorthisawesome
First of all u need medium-long hair once you have that it's easy just shower the night before then put gell in your hell and go to sleep when you wake up... BINGO you have a hair that's all done and ready to go.
Dude, that is EXACTLY what I tried last night. WORKS LIKE A FREAKIN CHARM. Thanks my fellow messy haired DJs. :up:
 

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Originally posted by Kerensky
Are you sure you're 21+ ? It sure doesn't seem like it how you posted. If you can't control your emotions online, I wonder what you're like in real life....

Please, I'm not gay. But feel free to join the gay straight alliance in the high school forum.
 
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