"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to get my g/f to trust me again?! :(

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How can I get my girlfriend to trust me again, she asks me how I can get her to trust me but I dont know what to say?!? this is what she said :(

How can I love you so much when I can't trust you?
What can I do? I guess there is a problem with you being my best
friend and the person that I love the most because I know that you
can't answer half of my questions.

Im lost and I really want to stay with this girl and have her trust me again, I really messed up and was talking to other girls and I shouldnt have been, so what can I do??! Please help :(
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What?? Don't we make reading the Bible mandatory reading before posts?

You were TALKING to other women? And she got upset? Next her and get with these 'other women'!
 
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No :( I really want this girl, she is seriously the most beautiful person ever to me and I really want to marry this chick man :( I want her back, but I dont know how I can tell her how to trust me again :(
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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What draws you to insecure women and why do you waste time dating them if you want to sarge other women?
 
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I just really messed up man :( I wasnt thinking at all when I did it and im trying to think of waht to tell her, or to get her to trust me again so we can get back together :(
 
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Buddy, you're not ready for a relationship let alone marriage, not until you become a man. Read the bible!!
 
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Read the bible!

Originally posted by PeeGee
What?? Don't we make reading the Bible mandatory reading before posts?

You were TALKING to other women? And she got upset? Next her and get with these 'other women'!
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I agree...
 
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And by being a man I believe life-trainee means that instead of coming here and saying...

"What do I do! I think I messed up my relationshp by displeasing my women, I'm so sad, what do I do!" Like a pvssy whipped puppy....

It's harsh but that's the vibe I get from you.

Right when she said that to you, the splt second after, you would have... in a calm and straitforward voice, said something like...

“Being with you doesn’t mean I’m cut off from communicating with the opposite sex, I wouldn’t want to limit _your_ life if you met an interesting guy somewhere and just wanted to have a conversation with him."

And no matter what she said after that, no matter what, you stuck to that belief, because you know sacraficing it...her aside... would make you less happy and less of a man.

You accomplish a few things here. You put your foot down, you make it her problem instead of yours, and you present the idea that talking to other people doesn't necessarily imply sexual interest.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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