"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to get my g/f to trust me again?! :(

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How can I get my girlfriend to trust me again, she asks me how I can get her to trust me but I dont know what to say?!? this is what she said :(

How can I love you so much when I can't trust you?
What can I do? I guess there is a problem with you being my best
friend and the person that I love the most because I know that you
can't answer half of my questions.

Im lost and I really want to stay with this girl and have her trust me again, I really messed up and was talking to other girls and I shouldnt have been, so what can I do??! Please help :(
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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What?? Don't we make reading the Bible mandatory reading before posts?

You were TALKING to other women? And she got upset? Next her and get with these 'other women'!
 
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No :( I really want this girl, she is seriously the most beautiful person ever to me and I really want to marry this chick man :( I want her back, but I dont know how I can tell her how to trust me again :(
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What draws you to insecure women and why do you waste time dating them if you want to sarge other women?
 
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I just really messed up man :( I wasnt thinking at all when I did it and im trying to think of waht to tell her, or to get her to trust me again so we can get back together :(
 
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Buddy, you're not ready for a relationship let alone marriage, not until you become a man. Read the bible!!
 
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Read the bible!

Originally posted by PeeGee
What?? Don't we make reading the Bible mandatory reading before posts?

You were TALKING to other women? And she got upset? Next her and get with these 'other women'!
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I agree...
 
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And by being a man I believe life-trainee means that instead of coming here and saying...

"What do I do! I think I messed up my relationshp by displeasing my women, I'm so sad, what do I do!" Like a pvssy whipped puppy....

It's harsh but that's the vibe I get from you.

Right when she said that to you, the splt second after, you would have... in a calm and straitforward voice, said something like...

“Being with you doesn’t mean I’m cut off from communicating with the opposite sex, I wouldn’t want to limit _your_ life if you met an interesting guy somewhere and just wanted to have a conversation with him."

And no matter what she said after that, no matter what, you stuck to that belief, because you know sacraficing it...her aside... would make you less happy and less of a man.

You accomplish a few things here. You put your foot down, you make it her problem instead of yours, and you present the idea that talking to other people doesn't necessarily imply sexual interest.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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