She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Zarky said:Summary: Looks and money are the only things that matter. So if you're not hunky and rich then concentrate only on going to the gym and making money. If you are buff and rich you will have no trouble getting and keeping women.
I liken the above theory, which is very common, to the theory among women that the blonder her hair and the bigger her t*ts, the more likely a woman is to attract a man. I call it the man's version of the "Big Tittied Blonde" theory: the only things that attract women are looks and money, and the only things that attract men are boobs and blondes.
Can't say my experiences agree with the theory. But, if that's the way you want your world to work, then be my guest.
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You would be surprised with the amount of racism that is out there. In real life people keep their racism to themselves for fear of harm. On the internet, everyone is a tough guy,Zarky said:Summary: Looks and money are the only things that matter. So if you're not hunky and rich then concentrate only on going to the gym and making money. If you are buff and rich you will have no trouble getting and keeping women.
I liken the above theory, which is very common, to the theory among women that the blonder her hair and the bigger her t*ts, the more likely a woman is to attract a man. I call it the man's version of the "Big Tittied Blonde" theory: the only things that attract women are looks and money, and the only things that attract men are boobs and blondes.
Can't say my experiences agree with the theory. But, if that's the way you want your world to work, then be my guest.
EDIT: Annnd the uploader has set it so he must approve all comments before they're posted, which indicates that he knows he'll receive a lot of comments calling him out on his BS![]()
I agree. You need need combine looks/money with confidence aka game.Alle_Gory said:Looks and money by themselves are useless. It's the effect they have on the person (and to other people's perceptions) that's significant.
For example, money in the bank makes you confident. Why? Because you don't give a f*ck. You get fired? No big deal because you have money in the bank. Car breaks down? No sweat, you've got it covered. Need to go on vacation and relax? That's what money's for.
Looks can have a similar affect as well. Skills have a similar effect. You've got the skills and knowledge to handle whatever comes your way? Bam! Instant confidence.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.