"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How to get laid. The TRUTH about looks and money
- Thread starter SexyMofo
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Summary: Looks and money are the only things that matter. So if you're not hunky and rich then concentrate only on going to the gym and making money. If you are buff and rich you will have no trouble getting and keeping women.
I liken the above theory, which is very common, to the theory among women that the blonder her hair and the bigger her t*ts, the more likely a woman is to attract a man. I call it the man's version of the "Big Tittied Blonde" theory: the only things that attract women are looks and money, and the only things that attract men are boobs and blondes.
Can't say my experiences agree with the theory. But, if that's the way you want your world to work, then be my guest.
EDIT: Annnd the uploader has set it so he must approve all comments before they're posted, which indicates that he knows he'll receive a lot of comments calling him out on his BS
I liken the above theory, which is very common, to the theory among women that the blonder her hair and the bigger her t*ts, the more likely a woman is to attract a man. I call it the man's version of the "Big Tittied Blonde" theory: the only things that attract women are looks and money, and the only things that attract men are boobs and blondes.
Can't say my experiences agree with the theory. But, if that's the way you want your world to work, then be my guest.
EDIT: Annnd the uploader has set it so he must approve all comments before they're posted, which indicates that he knows he'll receive a lot of comments calling him out on his BS
Just a Shot Away
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Please, no. Don't do it. Just...don't.
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Here we go again. Goddammit, I'm not even entertaining this sh*t. Just read these threads along with the 85 page thread in the archive (Which I haven't finished reading BTW.)
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=117309
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=140981
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=151524
Have fun.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=117309
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=140981
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=151524
Have fun.
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If I were that guy, I'd probably believe you have to have looks and money too. Listen to his vocal projection. It's terrible. When you speak, it should sound smooth, fluid, and confident. And interesting. This guy doesn't convey any of that.
No authority + no personality = no women.
No authority + no personality = no women.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Zarky said:Summary: Looks and money are the only things that matter. So if you're not hunky and rich then concentrate only on going to the gym and making money. If you are buff and rich you will have no trouble getting and keeping women.
I liken the above theory, which is very common, to the theory among women that the blonder her hair and the bigger her t*ts, the more likely a woman is to attract a man. I call it the man's version of the "Big Tittied Blonde" theory: the only things that attract women are looks and money, and the only things that attract men are boobs and blondes.
Can't say my experiences agree with the theory. But, if that's the way you want your world to work, then be my guest.
EDIT: Annnd the uploader has set it so he must approve all comments before they're posted, which indicates that he knows he'll receive a lot of comments calling him out on his BS
You guys crack me up! I'm about to ROLMFAO! I think that if you have a small d#ck, then yes, game and money matters! And this is the first thing women think when coming across Asians!
Why can't everyone just belieave once and for all that looks and money aren't that important when it comes to getting girls?
Body languege, confidence, relaxed voice, dealing with anxiety and anger well, knowing how to calm a women down, treating a women good, knowing how to touch girls, understanding how women work, making women feel comfortable and secure, not being nervous, jiterry, not worrying much, knowing how to handle problems (emotional mostly?) etc. How is money and looks gonna help you if you're awkward, insecure, have a bad temper, let people walk over you, don't defend yourself or your women, are calm and cool (very important imo), are confident, aren't ashemed of yourself, don't think you're creepy or wierd, feel good about what you do, feel like what you do is right, have an AURA, etc. I'm just saying that, many people here could provide a million other examples... I don't come here every day, but it seems to me that it's still INSISTED that money and looks matter much by some posters. I tought that idea had been left ages ago.
I think that a lot of people here who get girls can tell by experience that it isn't so... I have a friend who looks better then avrege and is RICH (trust me) and almost everyone hates him because he is very ****y, treats people with disrespect, but at the same time is really very insecure (He always tryes to buy the most expensive clothes but they all look "gay" according to 90% of the people of my school) and he is spoiled and also very insecure and un-masculine. Then I have friends who just have good personalities, are kinda smart when dealing with people, have their own opinions and are fun to be around, etc, and girls like them much more.
Even if you still think that money and looks are the main thing when it coems to attracting women, (I don't think that saying they're not is a opinion, I think it's closer to a FACT) why can't you try and think otherwise? You'll just be happier, and if many people are telling it already, you can try to think about it, and reach your own conclusions. If you don't agree that money and looks isn't the main thing when it comes to attraction, my advice is to try and think otherwise, to improve on your confidence in general, and all that other stuff, and see if the world proves you otherwise... You just see the responses of women and then you'll see it for yourself, that is the most probable thing to happen.
PS: I didn't even listen to the whole video, maybe later...
Oh and I'm not saying you don't go to the gym anymore! (I think that having a good body comes naturally with your self esteem, if you have a high one you're gonna want to have good health). If you ask me however, for me the best activities also include swimming and especially Tai Chi, which was one of the most useful things I've ever learned!!
Body languege, confidence, relaxed voice, dealing with anxiety and anger well, knowing how to calm a women down, treating a women good, knowing how to touch girls, understanding how women work, making women feel comfortable and secure, not being nervous, jiterry, not worrying much, knowing how to handle problems (emotional mostly?) etc. How is money and looks gonna help you if you're awkward, insecure, have a bad temper, let people walk over you, don't defend yourself or your women, are calm and cool (very important imo), are confident, aren't ashemed of yourself, don't think you're creepy or wierd, feel good about what you do, feel like what you do is right, have an AURA, etc. I'm just saying that, many people here could provide a million other examples... I don't come here every day, but it seems to me that it's still INSISTED that money and looks matter much by some posters. I tought that idea had been left ages ago.
I think that a lot of people here who get girls can tell by experience that it isn't so... I have a friend who looks better then avrege and is RICH (trust me) and almost everyone hates him because he is very ****y, treats people with disrespect, but at the same time is really very insecure (He always tryes to buy the most expensive clothes but they all look "gay" according to 90% of the people of my school) and he is spoiled and also very insecure and un-masculine. Then I have friends who just have good personalities, are kinda smart when dealing with people, have their own opinions and are fun to be around, etc, and girls like them much more.
Even if you still think that money and looks are the main thing when it coems to attracting women, (I don't think that saying they're not is a opinion, I think it's closer to a FACT) why can't you try and think otherwise? You'll just be happier, and if many people are telling it already, you can try to think about it, and reach your own conclusions. If you don't agree that money and looks isn't the main thing when it comes to attraction, my advice is to try and think otherwise, to improve on your confidence in general, and all that other stuff, and see if the world proves you otherwise... You just see the responses of women and then you'll see it for yourself, that is the most probable thing to happen.
PS: I didn't even listen to the whole video, maybe later...
Oh and I'm not saying you don't go to the gym anymore! (I think that having a good body comes naturally with your self esteem, if you have a high one you're gonna want to have good health). If you ask me however, for me the best activities also include swimming and especially Tai Chi, which was one of the most useful things I've ever learned!!
Looks and money by themselves are useless. It's the effect they have on the person (and to other people's perceptions) that's significant.
For example, money in the bank makes you confident. Why? Because you don't give a f*ck. You get fired? No big deal because you have money in the bank. Car breaks down? No sweat, you've got it covered. Need to go on vacation and relax? That's what money's for.
Looks can have a similar affect as well. Skills have a similar effect. You've got the skills and knowledge to handle whatever comes your way? Bam! Instant confidence.
For example, money in the bank makes you confident. Why? Because you don't give a f*ck. You get fired? No big deal because you have money in the bank. Car breaks down? No sweat, you've got it covered. Need to go on vacation and relax? That's what money's for.
Looks can have a similar affect as well. Skills have a similar effect. You've got the skills and knowledge to handle whatever comes your way? Bam! Instant confidence.
SexyMofo
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You would be surprised with the amount of racism that is out there. In real life people keep their racism to themselves for fear of harm. On the internet, everyone is a tough guy,Zarky said:Summary: Looks and money are the only things that matter. So if you're not hunky and rich then concentrate only on going to the gym and making money. If you are buff and rich you will have no trouble getting and keeping women.
I liken the above theory, which is very common, to the theory among women that the blonder her hair and the bigger her t*ts, the more likely a woman is to attract a man. I call it the man's version of the "Big Tittied Blonde" theory: the only things that attract women are looks and money, and the only things that attract men are boobs and blondes.
Can't say my experiences agree with the theory. But, if that's the way you want your world to work, then be my guest.
EDIT: Annnd the uploader has set it so he must approve all comments before they're posted, which indicates that he knows he'll receive a lot of comments calling him out on his BS
SexyMofo
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I agree. You need need combine looks/money with confidence aka game.Alle_Gory said:
Looks by itself will lead to nothing. Money by itself will lead to being used and abused. Confidence by itself will lead to lots of ugly/fat women.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.