How to get in-state??

[Magnatolia]

Hi all,

Read a post about being in-state so basically everything is easy and smooth. What exactly is in-state and how do I achieve this, or at least what can I do to head towards being in-state?

I actually find that I am usually in-state at things like music festivals. The last one I made about 8 male friends that I hung out with listening to the music. And danced with several women - 1 or 2 of them actually prodded me at one point because I stopped dancing. And a few others chatted to me.

But in any other situation, even nightclubs and pubs, I'm a shocker. I just can't get in-state.

All advice is appreciated.

 

[ima str8 up pimp]

I just feed them, and when I feel their vulnerability I get in them, I don't lie and I definately NEVER make ANY male friends, I just already realize and know that when it comes to a girl, another mutha****kin penis won't help my situation.

 

[Grizou]

If it was not for some very good guy friends I met recently, I would have never been able to get it on with one of the hottest women I have met so far... but that is just my piece of cake! In this sense, if you are good with meeting guy friends you should not bother, because friends always know other interesting people.

On the question of how to get in state? I'll leave that to the "pros" on here, I think you should just go out for the fun of it and not with the overall ambition of hooking up with 10 girls a night. Many people will probably tell you, you should go for as many approaches as possible. That is true if you wanna overcome approach anxiety. If you just want to get in state, go to parties because you like parties, go to pubs with friends because you like it. It will make you feel more comfortable and "at home", eventually you start to own the place and getting to know some nice women will come as a very nice sideeffect I reckon.

 

[r0cky]

For me the best way to get in state is to start having fun right away. Don't linger around at the beguinning. For example last night bar hopping I approached the first person I saw as I entered any bar. It doesn't matter who it is. By the 3rd approach I was feeling like God. Also, getting a rejection out of the way will make you feel great. Like going up to the bitc*iest group of girls and asking them if they want to be part of your orgy.

 

[AKA FLEX]

For me the best way to get in state is to start having fun right away. Don't linger around at the beguinning. For example last night bar hopping I approached the first person I saw as I entered any bar. It doesn't matter who it is. By the 3rd approach I was feeling like God. Also, getting a rejection out of the way will make you feel great. Like going up to the bitc*iest group of girls and asking them if they want to be part of your orgy.

This is good advice here. When I go out on the town, there is a high correlation between getting rejected at the beginning of the night and getting laid at the end of the night.

Once you're in the mindset that you can approach any chick and laugh off rejection, things start to fall into place quickly.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

A while ago i made i made a thread where members share their way to get in STATE/MOOD . Maybe it might clarify some things you're asking for

CLICK HERE

 

[Poonani Maker]

Working VERY hard usually gets me in state for the weekend. I know I've paid my dues. But if I'm not working and I'm Really hard up for jolting myself into state, I'll watch a movie that makes me Respond to it emotionally (usually love). I know it sounds corny, but you can't go wrong with love. I like to be loving to everyone, and if a woman wants to return that love and more then ok. No guys please.