"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to Get Her to say "I Love You" (first)

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Judge her by what she does, not what she says or doesn't say.

Don't worry about 'benchmarks', just keep fvcking her and let her figure out what it means to her. If you are too worried about where you stand with a woman you hav lost your masculine frame.
Very true. Actions. She's doing favors for you, sucking you, fvcking you. OR she's stalling you, blowing off dates, stretching you out for sex, etc.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sex + "I love you" > Sex.

I'm gathering you guys don't have a lot of women telling you they love you, so you have decided this is actually a terrible thing which you thankfully have avoided!
 

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Someday someone will love _sideways_. Hang in there, girl.
 

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Sure but of course there s still no peace. My current squeeze cooks cleans looks after me if I'm sick loves the D etc. Now I gets beaten up because she says I don't love her as much as she loves me. With woman it's always Snakes and Ladders
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That's like saying getting high is for suckers.

No, signing a contract based on love is for suckers. Finding love is not for suckers. Finding love with a woman you love is what life is all about. The more women who love you, the better your life is. A man is nothing without a woman who loves him. How else is a man ultimately measured? By the percentage of women who know him that love him.
 
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