"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to Get Her to say "I Love You" (first)

mrgoodstuff

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Judge her by what she does, not what she says or doesn't say.

Don't worry about 'benchmarks', just keep fvcking her and let her figure out what it means to her. If you are too worried about where you stand with a woman you hav lost your masculine frame.
Very true. Actions. She's doing favors for you, sucking you, fvcking you. OR she's stalling you, blowing off dates, stretching you out for sex, etc.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sex + "I love you" > Sex.

I'm gathering you guys don't have a lot of women telling you they love you, so you have decided this is actually a terrible thing which you thankfully have avoided!
 

bigneil

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Someday someone will love _sideways_. Hang in there, girl.
 

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Sure but of course there s still no peace. My current squeeze cooks cleans looks after me if I'm sick loves the D etc. Now I gets beaten up because she says I don't love her as much as she loves me. With woman it's always Snakes and Ladders
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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bigneil

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That's like saying getting high is for suckers.

No, signing a contract based on love is for suckers. Finding love is not for suckers. Finding love with a woman you love is what life is all about. The more women who love you, the better your life is. A man is nothing without a woman who loves him. How else is a man ultimately measured? By the percentage of women who know him that love him.
 
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