mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Very true. Actions. She's doing favors for you, sucking you, fvcking you. OR she's stalling you, blowing off dates, stretching you out for sex, etc.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How to Get Her to say "I Love You" (first)
- Thread starter bigneil
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Type + " I luv u bruh" > Type
Trust me bro....
Trust me bro....
Sure but of course there s still no peace. My current squeeze cooks cleans looks after me if I'm sick loves the D etc. Now I gets beaten up because she says I don't love her as much as she loves me. With woman it's always Snakes and Ladders
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Love is for suckers.... Hang in there Sis.
That's like saying getting high is for suckers.
No, signing a contract based on love is for suckers. Finding love is not for suckers. Finding love with a woman you love is what life is all about. The more women who love you, the better your life is. A man is nothing without a woman who loves him. How else is a man ultimately measured? By the percentage of women who know him that love him.
No, signing a contract based on love is for suckers. Finding love is not for suckers. Finding love with a woman you love is what life is all about. The more women who love you, the better your life is. A man is nothing without a woman who loves him. How else is a man ultimately measured? By the percentage of women who know him that love him.