Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Well done Batman!HandyAndy said:First of all, Im not advertising McDonalds or anything, I dont eat there anymore, but yesterday my mom showed me the greatest video ever! It had me laughing at how genius this guy was, so anyways:
Heres how you get a free meal at McDonalds
1. Go through the drive through, there MUST be one car infront of you, and one car behind you, or else this wont work!
2. Purposely pass the speaker where you order at, and drive up to the first window, tell the employee "I didnt order anything, I forgot my money, Im just going to exit out"
3. So, the car ahead of you gets his/her food and pulls out of the drive through, thats when you pull up to the second window and wait for the food. You see, the guy BEHIND you ordered his food at the first window, and your going to get THEIR food at the second window, and drive off!
The guy in the vid drove off with a bag of McDonalds LMAO
Ill try to find the video, but man what a smart idea
If you have the balls to try it out PLEASE post it up!! :cheer:
EDIT: Heres the video!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VsMxMaF76MI
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
you gotta admit rollo.. their fries are the bomb.Rollo Tomassi said:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Whats more annoying is people like you coming to Europe.Sandow said: