“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How to get female friends in a new city

skinnyguy

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Yes, that's right. I'm trying to get friendzoned. The new city that I live in has a lot to offer and I really want female (and male) friends to make a HUGE social circle.

The best way for me to meet quality women is through social circle. Tinder doesn't work for me, neither does speed dating or cold approach. When I'm out with cool people, women practically fall in my lap and often they are super duper high quality. Because of my social proof, they have already screened me and thus trust me. Getting dates with them is cake.

My new place is sick - I have access to multiple pools, BBQ area, etc and my place is a total bachelor pad. I want to have lots of friends over and I'm wondering what's the best way for me to form this circle. Ideas? Going to my first meetup event tomorrow.

For the first couple months, I could care less if I get dates. But I would consider it a failure if I don't make at least 4-5 new friends who I hang out consistently with. I know I cannot start off in this new place isolated, or else I'm doomed.
 

Billtx49

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Get to know men that are confortable with women and have some in their social circle. Keep your eyes open daily 24/7. Easiest way to build proof.
 

jacketrunner

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Good plan... except don’t focus on just female friends. Focus on making friends in general.

Why not go on dates though? You could use a dating app or just hit on girls when you go out.
 

oldmanofthesea

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I've turned a few girls I dated from OLD into friends. So that's one way. Join some clubs - a sport club of some kind for a sport you are sort of into. Lots of friend-circles form out of those and most are very co-ed.
 

R.U.G.

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Bumble has a section to meet women outside of dating. Pretty easy to meet with them on a platonic level.
 
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