"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How to get female friends in a new city

skinnyguy

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Yes, that's right. I'm trying to get friendzoned. The new city that I live in has a lot to offer and I really want female (and male) friends to make a HUGE social circle.

The best way for me to meet quality women is through social circle. Tinder doesn't work for me, neither does speed dating or cold approach. When I'm out with cool people, women practically fall in my lap and often they are super duper high quality. Because of my social proof, they have already screened me and thus trust me. Getting dates with them is cake.

My new place is sick - I have access to multiple pools, BBQ area, etc and my place is a total bachelor pad. I want to have lots of friends over and I'm wondering what's the best way for me to form this circle. Ideas? Going to my first meetup event tomorrow.

For the first couple months, I could care less if I get dates. But I would consider it a failure if I don't make at least 4-5 new friends who I hang out consistently with. I know I cannot start off in this new place isolated, or else I'm doomed.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Billtx49

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Get to know men that are confortable with women and have some in their social circle. Keep your eyes open daily 24/7. Easiest way to build proof.
 

jacketrunner

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Good plan... except don’t focus on just female friends. Focus on making friends in general.

Why not go on dates though? You could use a dating app or just hit on girls when you go out.
 

oldmanofthesea

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I've turned a few girls I dated from OLD into friends. So that's one way. Join some clubs - a sport club of some kind for a sport you are sort of into. Lots of friend-circles form out of those and most are very co-ed.
 

R.U.G.

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Bumble has a section to meet women outside of dating. Pretty easy to meet with them on a platonic level.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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