"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to get back with a girl?

intha_burbz

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Alright, well there are 3 types of people in hihg school. very popular, kind of popular and not very popular. in grade 9 i knew this girl casually( i would talk to her sometimes,make her laugh, was smooth). after 1st semseter cam we didnt talk because i wasnt in any of her cloasses. over the summer she has become a very hot babe which inthe looks department is my type(blonde,big boobs). i also remember us having some good convos and me being very funny. im a very popular guy and she is a kind of/not very popular girl. How should i start being friends with this girl?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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steroidsrule

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totally agree with wee... come on you guys dont even think about your questions anymore... if you wanna talk to a girl... talk to her... im sure she'd love the company
 

DJ4Real

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Girls are usually more "open" to the popular guys. To attract this girl, use the DJ techniques (****y and funny, pull and push, mystery, and 2 steps foward one step back).

All you have to do is lay down your charisma on her. Just do your best not to come off as a "player".
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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oilers05

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You want to get a girl back, forget reminding her about the "good times". You have to show this girl how great your life is without her and she'll come crawling back to you! If she's in your presence put on a show, grad the attention of every girl in the room, you're Mr. Optimism, you're Mr. Successful.
 
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