"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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intha_burbz

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Alright, well there are 3 types of people in hihg school. very popular, kind of popular and not very popular. in grade 9 i knew this girl casually( i would talk to her sometimes,make her laugh, was smooth). after 1st semseter cam we didnt talk because i wasnt in any of her cloasses. over the summer she has become a very hot babe which inthe looks department is my type(blonde,big boobs). i also remember us having some good convos and me being very funny. im a very popular guy and she is a kind of/not very popular girl. How should i start being friends with this girl?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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steroidsrule

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totally agree with wee... come on you guys dont even think about your questions anymore... if you wanna talk to a girl... talk to her... im sure she'd love the company
 
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Girls are usually more "open" to the popular guys. To attract this girl, use the DJ techniques (****y and funny, pull and push, mystery, and 2 steps foward one step back).

All you have to do is lay down your charisma on her. Just do your best not to come off as a "player".
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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oilers05

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You want to get a girl back, forget reminding her about the "good times". You have to show this girl how great your life is without her and she'll come crawling back to you! If she's in your presence put on a show, grad the attention of every girl in the room, you're Mr. Optimism, you're Mr. Successful.
 
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