"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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intha_burbz

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Alright, well there are 3 types of people in hihg school. very popular, kind of popular and not very popular. in grade 9 i knew this girl casually( i would talk to her sometimes,make her laugh, was smooth). after 1st semseter cam we didnt talk because i wasnt in any of her cloasses. over the summer she has become a very hot babe which inthe looks department is my type(blonde,big boobs). i also remember us having some good convos and me being very funny. im a very popular guy and she is a kind of/not very popular girl. How should i start being friends with this girl?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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steroidsrule

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totally agree with wee... come on you guys dont even think about your questions anymore... if you wanna talk to a girl... talk to her... im sure she'd love the company
 
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Girls are usually more "open" to the popular guys. To attract this girl, use the DJ techniques (****y and funny, pull and push, mystery, and 2 steps foward one step back).

All you have to do is lay down your charisma on her. Just do your best not to come off as a "player".
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oilers05

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You want to get a girl back, forget reminding her about the "good times". You have to show this girl how great your life is without her and she'll come crawling back to you! If she's in your presence put on a show, grad the attention of every girl in the room, you're Mr. Optimism, you're Mr. Successful.
 
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