"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to get back in the game

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Hi,

This is a pretty short post. Recently I've been too busy with school and extracurricular unforunately to pursue any girls. But now the workload is dying out and I've learnt to balance my time better so i've got more free time.

Yet I now find that its MUCH harder to flirt for some reason. E.g. I just dont know what to say and kino and stuff doesn't flow as well.

Is this normal? AM i just rusty? And is there anything I have to do in particular other than keep practicing?

Many Thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Re: Re: How to get back in the game

Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
There no such thing.

You are rusty. Do a few cold pick-ups and aim for rejection to get your confidence.
Yah your right. It was maybe i wasnt as good at managing time. Thats what i thought of doing too. Thx

PS didn't expect a reply that quickly :p
 

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Re: Re: Re: Re: How to get back in the game

Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
Hey man it's not all about managing time either. I do a lot of pickups when i'm driving to and fro places. Give it a try. It makes driving fun. ;)
Don't mind me asking, but how do you do that? Just drive up by the girl and say hi?
 

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Originally posted by someperson12
Hi,

This is a pretty short post. Recently I've been too busy with school and extracurricular unforunately to pursue any girls. But now the workload is dying out and I've learnt to balance my time better so i've got more free time.

Yet I now find that its MUCH harder to flirt for some reason. E.g. I just dont know what to say and kino and stuff doesn't flow as well.

Is this normal? AM i just rusty? And is there anything I have to do in particular other than keep practicing?

Many Thanks
You are out of practice, its as simple as that... seeing as that u USE to be able to approach and apply kino etc in the past will make it easiyer for you to get "back in the game" ... So just start doing it again and soon enough you should be back where u left off;) Lets hope that you wont waste any more time though, you can always MAKE time to do the things u want to do... your life, you only live once, dont waste time;)


Laterz...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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