"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to get back in the game

someperson12

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Hi,

This is a pretty short post. Recently I've been too busy with school and extracurricular unforunately to pursue any girls. But now the workload is dying out and I've learnt to balance my time better so i've got more free time.

Yet I now find that its MUCH harder to flirt for some reason. E.g. I just dont know what to say and kino and stuff doesn't flow as well.

Is this normal? AM i just rusty? And is there anything I have to do in particular other than keep practicing?

Many Thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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someperson12

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Re: Re: How to get back in the game

Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
There no such thing.

You are rusty. Do a few cold pick-ups and aim for rejection to get your confidence.
Yah your right. It was maybe i wasnt as good at managing time. Thats what i thought of doing too. Thx

PS didn't expect a reply that quickly :p
 

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Re: Re: Re: Re: How to get back in the game

Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
Hey man it's not all about managing time either. I do a lot of pickups when i'm driving to and fro places. Give it a try. It makes driving fun. ;)
Don't mind me asking, but how do you do that? Just drive up by the girl and say hi?
 

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Originally posted by someperson12
Hi,

This is a pretty short post. Recently I've been too busy with school and extracurricular unforunately to pursue any girls. But now the workload is dying out and I've learnt to balance my time better so i've got more free time.

Yet I now find that its MUCH harder to flirt for some reason. E.g. I just dont know what to say and kino and stuff doesn't flow as well.

Is this normal? AM i just rusty? And is there anything I have to do in particular other than keep practicing?

Many Thanks
You are out of practice, its as simple as that... seeing as that u USE to be able to approach and apply kino etc in the past will make it easiyer for you to get "back in the game" ... So just start doing it again and soon enough you should be back where u left off;) Lets hope that you wont waste any more time though, you can always MAKE time to do the things u want to do... your life, you only live once, dont waste time;)


Laterz...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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