"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How to get back in the game

someperson12

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Hi,

This is a pretty short post. Recently I've been too busy with school and extracurricular unforunately to pursue any girls. But now the workload is dying out and I've learnt to balance my time better so i've got more free time.

Yet I now find that its MUCH harder to flirt for some reason. E.g. I just dont know what to say and kino and stuff doesn't flow as well.

Is this normal? AM i just rusty? And is there anything I have to do in particular other than keep practicing?

Many Thanks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Re: Re: How to get back in the game

Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
There no such thing.

You are rusty. Do a few cold pick-ups and aim for rejection to get your confidence.
Yah your right. It was maybe i wasnt as good at managing time. Thats what i thought of doing too. Thx

PS didn't expect a reply that quickly :p
 

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Re: Re: Re: Re: How to get back in the game

Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
Hey man it's not all about managing time either. I do a lot of pickups when i'm driving to and fro places. Give it a try. It makes driving fun. ;)
Don't mind me asking, but how do you do that? Just drive up by the girl and say hi?
 

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Originally posted by someperson12
Hi,

This is a pretty short post. Recently I've been too busy with school and extracurricular unforunately to pursue any girls. But now the workload is dying out and I've learnt to balance my time better so i've got more free time.

Yet I now find that its MUCH harder to flirt for some reason. E.g. I just dont know what to say and kino and stuff doesn't flow as well.

Is this normal? AM i just rusty? And is there anything I have to do in particular other than keep practicing?

Many Thanks
You are out of practice, its as simple as that... seeing as that u USE to be able to approach and apply kino etc in the past will make it easiyer for you to get "back in the game" ... So just start doing it again and soon enough you should be back where u left off;) Lets hope that you wont waste any more time though, you can always MAKE time to do the things u want to do... your life, you only live once, dont waste time;)


Laterz...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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