"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to get back in the game

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Hi,

This is a pretty short post. Recently I've been too busy with school and extracurricular unforunately to pursue any girls. But now the workload is dying out and I've learnt to balance my time better so i've got more free time.

Yet I now find that its MUCH harder to flirt for some reason. E.g. I just dont know what to say and kino and stuff doesn't flow as well.

Is this normal? AM i just rusty? And is there anything I have to do in particular other than keep practicing?

Many Thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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someperson12

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Re: Re: How to get back in the game

Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
There no such thing.

You are rusty. Do a few cold pick-ups and aim for rejection to get your confidence.
Yah your right. It was maybe i wasnt as good at managing time. Thats what i thought of doing too. Thx

PS didn't expect a reply that quickly :p
 

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Re: Re: Re: Re: How to get back in the game

Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
Hey man it's not all about managing time either. I do a lot of pickups when i'm driving to and fro places. Give it a try. It makes driving fun. ;)
Don't mind me asking, but how do you do that? Just drive up by the girl and say hi?
 

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Originally posted by someperson12
Hi,

This is a pretty short post. Recently I've been too busy with school and extracurricular unforunately to pursue any girls. But now the workload is dying out and I've learnt to balance my time better so i've got more free time.

Yet I now find that its MUCH harder to flirt for some reason. E.g. I just dont know what to say and kino and stuff doesn't flow as well.

Is this normal? AM i just rusty? And is there anything I have to do in particular other than keep practicing?

Many Thanks
You are out of practice, its as simple as that... seeing as that u USE to be able to approach and apply kino etc in the past will make it easiyer for you to get "back in the game" ... So just start doing it again and soon enough you should be back where u left off;) Lets hope that you wont waste any more time though, you can always MAKE time to do the things u want to do... your life, you only live once, dont waste time;)


Laterz...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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