"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to get ANY girl

Supremo

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You'll hear about special "methods" and "techniques" used to get girls. But none of that will work unless you learn to be social.

Think of it like you got your arm cut off. You should be worried about stopping the bleeding before you think about bench pressing again. Your cut off arm is the lack of social skills, the bench pressing is seducing girls. (Great analogy, I know.)

You need to learn to be social before you even think about seducing girls.

I feel like a broken record by saying to go out and talk to anyone and everyone you meet (yes, talking to strangers is a GOOD thing in this case), but some people just don't seem to get it.

Talking to people just in your high school is a start, but go into town and chat up the locals. Start small and ask for the time... progress to talking about the weather... from there talk about local sports and just about anything.

Work on eye contact as well. It WILL seem awkward at first if you've spend most of your life unable to maintain it, but after a while it'll become second nature to do so.

Once you can comfortably chat up people you don't know without problems (stopping the bleeding), then you can refer to the canned lines and other techniques people use to get the girls (bench pressing).

Don't be a keyboard jockey. Get out there and make changes in your life. NOW!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I guess "learn to walk before you run" was the analogy you were looking for... but yeah, that makes sense.
 

J-dog

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Is oké but I'm Chinese and live in Belgium. What am I with that?!?!?!
 
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I agree. How you supposed to chat to girls if you can't even chat to men or old ladys and I don't know what you're with that J-Dog.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I agree with you but I just can't become social.I don't even have good friends.I want to break the ice but I don't know how.
 
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