"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How to get ANY girl

Supremo

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You'll hear about special "methods" and "techniques" used to get girls. But none of that will work unless you learn to be social.

Think of it like you got your arm cut off. You should be worried about stopping the bleeding before you think about bench pressing again. Your cut off arm is the lack of social skills, the bench pressing is seducing girls. (Great analogy, I know.)

You need to learn to be social before you even think about seducing girls.

I feel like a broken record by saying to go out and talk to anyone and everyone you meet (yes, talking to strangers is a GOOD thing in this case), but some people just don't seem to get it.

Talking to people just in your high school is a start, but go into town and chat up the locals. Start small and ask for the time... progress to talking about the weather... from there talk about local sports and just about anything.

Work on eye contact as well. It WILL seem awkward at first if you've spend most of your life unable to maintain it, but after a while it'll become second nature to do so.

Once you can comfortably chat up people you don't know without problems (stopping the bleeding), then you can refer to the canned lines and other techniques people use to get the girls (bench pressing).

Don't be a keyboard jockey. Get out there and make changes in your life. NOW!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I guess "learn to walk before you run" was the analogy you were looking for... but yeah, that makes sense.
 

J-dog

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Is oké but I'm Chinese and live in Belgium. What am I with that?!?!?!
 
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I agree. How you supposed to chat to girls if you can't even chat to men or old ladys and I don't know what you're with that J-Dog.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I agree with you but I just can't become social.I don't even have good friends.I want to break the ice but I don't know how.
 
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