"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to get ANY girl

Supremo

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You'll hear about special "methods" and "techniques" used to get girls. But none of that will work unless you learn to be social.

Think of it like you got your arm cut off. You should be worried about stopping the bleeding before you think about bench pressing again. Your cut off arm is the lack of social skills, the bench pressing is seducing girls. (Great analogy, I know.)

You need to learn to be social before you even think about seducing girls.

I feel like a broken record by saying to go out and talk to anyone and everyone you meet (yes, talking to strangers is a GOOD thing in this case), but some people just don't seem to get it.

Talking to people just in your high school is a start, but go into town and chat up the locals. Start small and ask for the time... progress to talking about the weather... from there talk about local sports and just about anything.

Work on eye contact as well. It WILL seem awkward at first if you've spend most of your life unable to maintain it, but after a while it'll become second nature to do so.

Once you can comfortably chat up people you don't know without problems (stopping the bleeding), then you can refer to the canned lines and other techniques people use to get the girls (bench pressing).

Don't be a keyboard jockey. Get out there and make changes in your life. NOW!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I guess "learn to walk before you run" was the analogy you were looking for... but yeah, that makes sense.
 

J-dog

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Is oké but I'm Chinese and live in Belgium. What am I with that?!?!?!
 
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I agree. How you supposed to chat to girls if you can't even chat to men or old ladys and I don't know what you're with that J-Dog.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I agree with you but I just can't become social.I don't even have good friends.I want to break the ice but I don't know how.
 
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